For Obsessive lovers,
their relationship often becomes
the pinnacle of their identity
and much
of their self-worth
and self-esteem
becomes rooted in its success.
Because of this,
they may find themselves
reacting to situations
in ways that indicate jealousy,
the need to control,
or high levels
of emotional dependency.
These lovers
thrive on security
and reassurance,
and if these
needs aren't met,
they can escalate
into destructive behaviors,
often leaving
both parties in turmoil.